Bringing up a sensitive topic

  • Can I talk to you for a minute?
  • Can I ask you something?
  • Do you mind if I ask you something?
  • I need to talk to you for a minute.
  • I have to tell you something.
  • There's something I need to tell you.
  • There's something I think you should know.
  • We need to talk.

Getting someone to explain something you have not understood

What do you mean?/ What do you mean by…?
Do you mean (that)…?/ Does that mean (that)…?
What exactly does that mean?
What are you saying/ trying to say?
Don’t you mean…?
What (exactly) does that …mean?

Could/Would you explain this word, please?
‘Trade convention’?/ ‘Curriculum’?/ etc. (echoing the problem word with a question intonation)

Sorry, I didn’t understand (the word)…
Sorry, I’m lost.
Sorry, I’m afraid you’ve lost me there.
Sorry, I don’t/didn’t quite follow you/ what you were saying about…

I’m not sure I understand/ follow you.
I’m afraid I don’t understand.
I don’t quite see what you mean/ what you’re getting at, I’m afraid.
I’m sorry, I’m not quite clear on…
I don’t get you/it/the point.
What's the point?

In case you don’t know the answer

  • I don’t know.
  • I don’t know anything about that.
  • I haven’t thought about that.
If the question is too vague

  • I’m sorry, could you be more specific?
  • What do you mean exactly?
  • What’s the point?

Speaking 1: What’s the point?

Ask your partner the following questions:

  • How many are there in your family?
  • What’s the most important thing in your life?
  • What is/was your GPA in university?
  • Do you have a girlfriend/ boyfriend?

If you need time to think

  • Hmm, let me see…
  • Let me think about that.
  • Well…Good question.
If you don't understand

  • Pardon me? Could you please repeat that?
  • I don’t understand.
  • I didn’t hear what you said.
  • What does that mean?

Speaking 2: Pardon me?

Ask your partner the following questions:

  • Do you believe in ESP?
  • Have you ever been to a BYOB party?
  • What’s the purpose of life?
  • What do you think of MLI?

If you feel your English is not good enough

  • I know what you’re talking about, but it’s difficult for me to explain in English.
  • I’m not sure if I can answer properly in English, but let me try.

If the question is too personal or rude

  • I’m sorry, I’d rather not say.
  • That’s a little personal.
  • I’d rather not talk about it.
  • It’s none of your business.

Speaking 3: It’s none of your business!

Ask your partner the following questions:

  • How many men/women have you kissed?
  • Are you a good kisser?
  • How much money do you make?
  • Can you explain the meaning of “yin & yang”?
  • What grosses you out?

Criticizing constructively

  • This is a great effort but…
  • You did fine but…
  • Do you think that you can make some changes next time?
  • I think it might be better if you’d…
  • As a friend, I think I should tell you…

Sample Dialog

A: What do you think of my presentation?

B: Everything looked great, but you might want to think through the presentation next time.

A: What’s wrong with it?

B: I think it’s too flashy for a serious topic. As a friend, I think I should tell you to try to modify it a bit.

A: Thanks. I appreciate your concern.

Expressing opinion and agreeing with an opinion

Expressing opinion

  • I (personally) think/believe/feel…
  • Personally, I believe/think/feel…
  • I honestly feel…
  • In my (personal) opinion/view…
  • I imagine/suppose/reckon…
  • Do know what I think? I think…
  • As I see it…
  • The way I look at it/see it…
  • It appears/seems to me…
  • To my mind…
  • If you ask me…
  • I’d say that…
  • As far as I can tell…
  • Let me tell you…
  • To the best of my knowledge…
  • I’m pretty/quite sure that…
  • I’m fairly certain that…
  • It’s quite obvious that...

Expressing agreement with an opinion

  • Yes/yeah.
  • (Yes) it is, isn’t it?/ He does, doesn’t he?/ etc.
  • Exactly/quite/absolutely/definitely.
  • Right/ All right// Yes you’re right.
  • That’s (quite) right/true.
  • Quite so.
  • Of course.
  • Yes/well I suppose so.
  • I agree (entirely)./ I think so, too.
  • I couldn’t agree more.
  • That’s just exactly what I think/thought/ was thinking.
  • That’s what I was going to say.
  • You took the words out of my mouth!
  • That’s a good point.
  • So/neither do I/ Me too.

Changing the topic in a conversation

  • (Oh) by the way…
  • That reminds me (of)…
  • Speaking about/of…/Talking of…
  • Before I forget…
  • Oh, there’s something else I wanted/meant to say…/ask you…
  • This has got nothing to do with what we are talking about, but…
  • I know this is changing the subject but…
  • Changing the subject (for minute)…

Asking for repetition

Purpose: Develop strategies to ask for repetition in order to clarify meaning

  • (I’m) sorry?/ (I) (beg your) pardon?
  • (I’m) sorry, I didn’t hear /catch/get/understand the last part/the part about.../the last/first word.
  • Sorry, what did you say?/ what was that again?
  • What was that word/the first word/ his name/ the last sentence again?
  • Would/Could you repeat/ what you said/ that name/ the last word, please?
  • Could you repeat that for me, please?
  • Would you mind repeating that?
  • Sorry, can/could you say that again please?
  • Sorry, can/could you repeat it more slowly?
  • Sorry, would you mind speaking a bit slower?
  • Sorry, can/could you repeat it more loudly?
  • I’m sorry, I couldn’t/didn’t hear (what you said).
  • I’m sorry, when/who/where/what time did you say?
  • Sorry, did you say…?
  • What?/ You what?/ When?/ Where?/ Who?/ What kind of…?
  • Hang on/ Just a minute, say that again.
  • I didn’t quite catch that.

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